The aim of this study was to investigate the effect of emotional harassment and emotion regulation and emotion memory simultaneously on the anxiety attachment variable, as well as to mediate emotion regulation and emotion memory in the relationship between emotional harassment and anxiety attachment. The research method was correlation of structural equations. The statistical population of the study included all students studying in the second semester of Bu Ali Sina University in 1399, which was selected as a cluster using the Cochran's formula of 350 people. Data collection tools were Gross and John Emotion Regulation Questionnaire (2004), Collins and Reed Adult Attachment Style Questionnaire, Rachman Event Processing Questionnaire (2000) and Yar Mohammadi Emotional Harassment Questionnaire (2010) and were distributed through virtual networks. Data analysis method was used using statistical tests of correlation coefficient and regression and to check the fit of the data with the conceptual model, the statistical method of structural equations SEM was used and for data analysis from SPSS24 software, 24AMOS was used. Findings showed that the proposed Sakhnari model has a good fit that all three variables can simultaneously affect anxiety attachment. According to the results obtained from the structural equation model of the research, this model can be used to prevent anxiety attachment due to the simultaneous effectiveness of three variables and also by strengthening emotion regulation strategies and emotional memory to reduce the effects of anxiety attachment.